Generosity

Tyler, brooke, Jasena's Page [] Circle of Courage Generosity: Finally, virtue was reflected in the preeminent value of generosity. The central goal in Native American child-rearing is to the teach the importance of being generous and unselfish. In the words of a Lakota Elder, "You should be able to give away your most cherished possession without your heart beating faster." In helping others, youth create their own proof of worthiness: they make a positive contribution to another human life. [] What Is Generosity? Generosity refers to the need of individuals to share and serve others, and the feelings of self-worth and esteem that come from assisting others. Through making positive contributions to the lives of others students can increase their feelings of self-worth and self-esteem. Individuals who are generous are also referred to as “other people smart” or as having “good interpersonal skills”. Students who experience generosity are likely to have well-developed pro-social skills (e.g., sharing, turn-taking, joining in, giving compliments, accepting criticism/ feedback, negotiating). They are also likely to show concern for others, have close friends, be leaders and teachers, and be caring, sharing and supportive. Students who have an inadequate sense of generosity may be selfish, lack interest in the wellbeing of others, and have an antisocial viewpoint. Their lack of engagement in meaningful activities with others can result in feelings of low self-worth and purposelessness.